Dear HR Executive,
Well, maybe there’s something to be said for the recession after all: Chances are less than usual that you’ll have to deal with the messy fallout from a failed office romance involving your employees.
That’s because employees are less likely to take the risk of office romance these days, according to a survey by Vault.com
The career website asked several hundred employees whether the economic downturn made people more or less ready to run romantic risks at the office. Some 80% said they were less likely to court co-workers. “If being in a romance with a co-worker means your job could be at risk, why would you even consider it in this economy?” one respondent commented.
Policy gaps
So maybe you’ll have a little respite from office romances, which too often lead to hard feelings, colleagues taking sides and, in the worst cases, sexual harassment charges.
But when the economy gets better and people start feeling more secure in their jobs, are you ready for a romantic resurgence? The survey suggests that most employers aren’t.
Fully 65% of those who responded say their employers have no policy on dating and romance among employees. Not a good idea. Even if you don’t have a draconian policy – like outlawing intraoffice dating entirely – you need to address the issue, at least supervisor-subordinate dating, which can cause REALLY big problems.
And by the way, the Vault.com survey showed that 21% of employees had either dated somebody they supervised or somebody who supervised them. Best-practice policies usually ban supervisor-subordinate dating.
Not so rare
If you think that office romance is relatively uncommon, think again. Some 58% of respondents said they’d had an office romance, and another 12% said they would if the opportunity presented itself.
And many folks are repeat romancers. Almost half of those who dated co-workers – 49% – said they’d do it again if they got a chance.
If you don’t have an office romance policy and decide you need one, make sure it covers this critically important point: Tell employees how to report any retaliation, hostility or stalking once the romance ends. That’ll help you steer clear of sexual harassment troubles.
Dave Clemens
Editor-in-Chief
The HR Café Newsletter